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Why Am I?

Discover the purpose you already have

By George Meressa and Isabelle Meressa, with Steve Simonson

★★★★★ 5.0 out of 5 · 6 ratings on Amazon

Free to read on Kindle Unlimited.

You don’t need to find a purpose. You already have one.

Why Am I? starts from a simple idea: the purpose you are looking for is already showing up in your life. You just have not named it yet. The book walks you through the evidence of your own life, including your best moments, your patterns, what fills you and what drains you, your best days and your worst ones, and leads you to name what has been energising you all along.

Not a personality test

This is not a quiz, and it will not put you in a preset category. It is a step-by-step process. It starts with what you don’t want, then works through your peak moments, your past, your everyday life and what the people closest to you see. It ends with a single sentence that explains your whole life. Then it shows you how to build around it.

A process tested on real people

The process was developed by entrepreneur Steve Simonson, who spent two years being told his own answers were wrong before he found the real one. George and Isabelle Meressa then tested it chapter by chapter on real people: a pastor, a founder, a project manager and a student. None of them found what they expected.

What you will get from it

Readers call it practical, easy to read and life-changing when you do the work. One described it as an outstanding framework to find the real energy source of your life. Another said the exercises don’t just make you think, they help you uncover patterns.

Read real readers’ Why stories

See how the process works in practice on the companion site, Project Why Am I, with the real stories of people who found their Why.

Visit projectwhyami.com →

Who this book is for

Why Am I? is for anyone with more questions than answers about their life. It suits people at a crossroads in their career, people who have done well but feel something is missing, and people who simply want to understand what makes them tick. You don’t need any background in coaching or psychology. You need to be willing to be honest with yourself and put in the work, because the exercises only help if you actually do them.

You don’t need a new life. You need to know why you’re living this one.

Reader reviews

What readers are saying

★★★★★  5.0 out of 5 from 6 ratings on Amazon

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★★★★★

So helpful!

This book is fantastic, incredibly helpful content! If you're questioning your life, and what to do with it then I'd highly recommend!

Thomas Hughes
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 17 August 2026, Kindle Edition
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★★★★★

Outstanding framework to find the real energy source of your life

An incredible framework for thinking about purpose and mission in life. I have been working on redefining my purpose in life and in my career, and the exercises laid out in the book have helped me a lot to find my why. The book is life-changing when you do the work and spend some time doing introspection. I also love how easy it is to read.

If you have more questions than answers in your life, this book is a must.

Nessa
Reviewed in Spain on 18 August 2026, Hardcover, Verified Purchase
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★★★★★

A Practical Guide to Finding Your Why

George's book gave me a completely different perspective on finding my personal Why.

The exercises don't just make you think,they help you uncover patterns.

If you're willing to be honest with yourself and put in the work, this book can have a lasting impact.

Highly recommended for anyone looking for more clarity, purpose, and direction in life.

Laurenz Elbers
Reviewed in Germany on 10 October 2026, Hardcover, Verified Purchase

Frequently asked questions

What is Why Am I? about?

It is a step-by-step guide to naming the purpose you already have. You work through your own life, from your peak moments to what drains you, and end with one sentence that explains what drives you.

Is Why Am I? a personality test?

No. It does not put you in a preset category. It is a guided process built on the evidence of your own life, including what the people closest to you see.

Who created the Why Am I? process?

The process was developed by entrepreneur Steve Simonson. George and Isabelle Meressa wrote the book and tested it chapter by chapter on real people, including a pastor, a founder, a project manager and a student.

Which formats are available?

Why Am I? is available on Amazon as a Kindle ebook and as a hardcover. The Kindle edition is also free to read with Kindle Unlimited.

Where can I read real stories from the process?

The companion site, projectwhyami.com, shares the stories of real people who went through the process and found their Why.

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